
Imagine facing a seriously dangerous event and thinking “Oh, this reminds me of that other time … oh wait! That turned out horrible and I have no idea why.” You start searching for another memory that might be helpful in this situation, but it turns out that one was worse, traumatic and even more confusing.…
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